You're Not Being "Nice", You're Being Invisible

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A free workshop for People Pleasers who are ready to be seen.

Which legacy do you want?

• The one who keeps swallowing their truth because "it’s not worth the hassle"? (which means you end up resenting people instead of connecting with them)
• Or the one who is vulnerable and gives themselves permission to be seen and heard…even if it means there’s some tension? (so you can advocate for real intimacy, not performative relationships)

I used to think that being “nice” and swallowing what I felt meant I was a “good person”. But I later realized that being nice wasn’t my personality, it was a trauma response.

Here’s what it led to…

• I stopped trying to discover my passion because my ex said I had no interests.
• I didn’t even know what intuition felt like because doubt was yelling so loudly.
• Prioritizing everyone’s comfort while I claimed to not need anything.

Patriarchy rewards you for being convenient.

It teaches you to:

• Twist yourself into a teeny tiny pretzel to avoid "being difficult" (while you convince yourself twisting yourself up is comfortable)
• Mistake being needed for being valued.
• Apologize for existing ("Sorry for talking too much! Sorry for needing help! I’M SORRY I EXIST!!!”).

But here’s the truth: People-pleasing isn’t virtue…it’s  self-abandonment. And when you make yourself small,  the world gets used to it.

This free workshop will untangle you from your pretzel "niceness" so you can stop performing comfort for others while quietly abandoning yourself (because you were never meant to live folded up inside others' expectations).

Presenter:

Nisha Mody, I used to feel like personal development and self-care were too selfish. It was important for me to help others and be “of service.”

I learned skills to attune to my own feelings and needs, communicate vulnerably (without wanting to run away), and make empowered decisions to live a values-aligned life that connected to collective liberation.

As a Life Coach for Liberatory Dreamers (and overachievers and people pleasers), these skills have helped me feel empowered.

Training Partner for this Event: Nisha Mody